Your marriage is stuck. You get along okay, but you can’t remember the last time you really felt loved, wanted, or important. Each morning you hope that they’ll notice you, appreciate you, or just let you know you mean something to them. But there’s always a job to rush off to, kids to get ready, or chores to do. And by the end of the day, you have nothing left to give. It feels like you’re just roommates. You know in your head that they love you, but you feel lonely. Talking is stressful and miscommunications end in blowups. Your friends and family think you’re the perfect couple; you’ve really made a life for yourselves. But they don’t see the buried anger, disappointment, and sadness that you’ve learned to live with. You want to make it better, but you can’t seem to do it on your own.
I help couples move from disconnection and emptiness to warmth and closeness. Together, we raise the bar from “we don’t yell, so it’s not that bad,” to being able to have hard conversations that build intimacy and lead to real change. Couples work with me when they’re ready to recapture the meaning of their life together. They deepen their emotional, spiritual, and sexual connection that gives them not only the courage to stay in the relationship, but the passion to make efforts every day to make it better. It’s time to look each other in the eyes and remember why you choose to wake up together every day. You can change the way you do the day-to-day, so you can enjoy life together, even when things are hard.
Call me today so you can start to feel like a team again.