When you’re in a rocky relationship, you want things to get better NOW…or 5 years ago! The average couple waits 6 years into a troubled relationship before they see a couple’s therapist. That doesn’t have to be you. There is one, simple thing you can do to start changing your relationship for the better. […]
Loving Your Partner When Life is Messy
Benjamin Franklin famously said that there are two things in life that are certain: death and taxes. I would humbly add that life is also messy. Sometimes crazy messy. Hot mess messy. And in the midst of all that chaos, we can lose sight of the things that matter most to us, especially our relationships. […]
5 “KNOWS” for Better Boundaries
Setting boundaries is a popular topic and something I discuss with every client I meet. One might think that with all this dialogue in our culture, we’d all be better at it. But, we’re not. Setting boundaries is a skill that must be practiced and honed over time. And, I bet you anything, that no […]
Betrayal
Discovery There are many ways that partners find out about the sexual behaviors of their loved ones. But one emotion is common to many: betrayal. You thought you knew your loved one; the person you’ve made your deepest commitment to. And then your world crumbles. Maybe your story looks like this: You walk into the […]
How to Love Your Sex Addicted Partner
I was recently interviewed by my dear colleague Robyn D’Angelo, The Happy Couple Expert! Robyn interviewed over 20 professionals for her How to Love Your Partner series. I had the privilege of sharing about How to Love Your Sexually Addicted Partner. Here’s our interview. I hope you find it helpful and encouraging. And if you’d like […]